You’re a feminist. Great! You want to give your child a name with feminist values. Fantastic!
It’s a boy…hmmm.
It’s relatively easy to come up with feminist girl names inspired by strong females like women’s rights activists, scientists or writers, to name but a few. But for boy names, you may need to think outside the box.
Thanks to our reader dechen for opening this topic in the Nameberry forum – it’s gathered lots of great ideas, many of which are included here. (For even more, there’s also this thread from a few years back.) Inspired by them, let’s lift the lid and look at 5 ways to find a fabulous feminist name for a boy.
1. Use a male feminist icon name
One obvious place to look is the names of feminist men. Some early advocates of women’s rights with highly usable first names include:
Parker Pillsbury – minister who helped to form the American Equal Rights Association
2. Say it with a surname
If you want to name a boy after a strong woman – whether from your family tree or a high-profile woman you admire – one option is to use her surname.
Most of us can think of families who have done this. A recent celebrity example is TV host Seth Meyers. His older son, Ashe Olsen, has his mother’s and grandmother’s maiden names. Younger brother Axel Strahl has an almost-anagram of his mother’s name, Alexi, plus a significant surname from her family.
It can be a balancing act between personal meaning and aesthetic appeal, but here’s a small sample of strong women’s surnames that are also stylish for a boy.
3. Make it masculine
Another way to adapt a heroine’s name: use a masculine form of it. This could either be the strictly-speaking version you’ll find in name dictionaries, or an adaptation of the sound. Don‘t worry, I won’t tell the name police.
A few examples from assorted admirable women:
4. Claim it for the boys
Want to challenge gender norms? You could use a unisex name. For true gender equality, the names with the most even boy/girl split at the moment include Charlie, Finley and Skyler. If statistics are important to you, bear in mind that the balance could tip either way in future years/decades.
Or how about using a name that’s more familiar on girls?
Realistically, not many parents are going to call their sons Isabella or Abigail (though if you do, more power to you). But some traditionally female names lend themselves more to boys. Hero is as much a word name as an ancient Greek female name. Jayne leans male for Firefly fans.
Some surname-derived names that were popular for girls a few decades ago now feel like they could be fresh on a boy, such as Ashley, Kelly, and maybe even Tracey. Going back further…could you be the one to bring Esme, Florence and Hilary back to the boys?
There’s also a bracket of medieval female names that have fallen out of use – though some survive in surnames – and now feel unisex if not masculine. Emmett is firmly a boy name today; others include Ames, Marriott, Sealey and Wilmot. (Check out this post at British Baby Names for more.)
5. Go symbolic
What about a name that reflects values, rather than a specific person? Let’s finish by looking at some more symbolic feminist names.
Purple was one of the suffragettes’ colors, and is now the color of International Women’s Day. There aren’t many purple names that feel quite comfortable on boys – though by all means reclaim them – but Indigo, Mulberry and Porfirio are some.
A hammer is sometimes used as a symbol for feminism (specifically smashing the patriarchy), so how about hammer-wielding Thor?
Modern virtue names are hot for boys, and many have meanings relevant to feminism, like Justice, Brave and Truth (which could also be a nod to women’s rights hero Sojourner Truth). There are also names with more subtle meanings – like Simeon or Samuel, which are associated with words meaning “listen”. Which is the first step towards smashing the patriarchy.
What are your favorite feminist names – and what would you add to the list?