Kip's List of Soft Neutral Names

  1. Asa
    • Origin:

      Hebrew; Japanese
    • Meaning:

      "healer; born in the morning"
    • Description:

      A short but strong biblical name with multicultural appeal, Asa is enjoying new visibility thanks to hot young actor Asa Butterfield of Hugo fame.
  2. Aspen
    • Origin:

      Nature and place-name
    • Description:

      As trendy as the chic Colorado ski resort and film festival, Aspen is fast becoming more popular for girls than for boys, but this nature name would work equally well for either.
  3. Azure
    • Origin:

      English color name
    • Meaning:

      "sky blue"
    • Description:

      Azure is a colorful choice for a blue-eyed child, recently chosen by Elon Musk for his daughter. Currently, Azure is used for American baby girls and boys in equal numbers. Among other blue-toned color name possibilities: Indigo, Cerulean, and Blue itself.
  4. Berry
    • Origin:

      Nature name
    • Description:

      If not for Motown founder Berry Gordy, this name would now be totally in the girl group.
  5. Blue
    • Origin:

      Color name
    • Description:

      Among the coolest of the cool color names, particularly popular with celebs as a unisex middle name.
  6. Clove
    • Origin:

      Nature name
    • Description:

      Clove is one of a whole tantalizing genre of spice names that might work for a boy. Clovis could be considered a long form.
  7. Dell
    • Origin:

      Diminutive of Odell, English
    • Meaning:

      "of the valley"
    • Description:

      Originally a short form of Odell, a place name turned surname that hails from England.
  8. Dove
    • Origin:

      Color and nature name
    • Meaning:

      "dove, a bird"
    • Description:

      Subtle but clear unisex way to signal peace, especially in middle place.
  9. Early
    • Origin:

      Word name
    • Description:

      Early is a word-turned-name, pleasantly suggesting the start of a bright new day. Of the new word and day names, Early is one of the best.
  10. Ember
    • Ess
      • Harbor
        • Origin:

          Word name
        • Description:

          If you like names that are not really names -- some say, the wave of the future -- Harbor has an attractive sound as well as an appealing meaning and image.
      • Hollis
        • Origin:

          English
        • Meaning:

          "near the holly bushes"
        • Description:

          Hollis is a surname name used quietly for both sexes. At last count, it was given to 212 baby boys and 129 baby girls in the US. It has notable connections for both sexes. On the boys' side, Hollis Thompson is a professional basketball player and Hollis Watkins is a Civil Rights activist in Mississippi. Hollis is an outsized favorite for girls in South Carolina, where Pete Hollis was a community folk hero. For girls, it makes Holly more buttoned-up and distinctive.
      • Indie
        • Description:

          Variant spelling of Indy
      • Ira
        • Origin:

          Hebrew
        • Meaning:

          "watchful one"
        • Description:

          Ira is one of the shortest, non-biblical sounding Old Testament names, belonging to one of King David's thirty 'mighty warriors.' It was widely used in the US from the 1880s to the early 1930s (it was Number 57 on the Social Security list in 1881), but fell off completely in 1993. Although Ira is also a retirement-account acronym, it's back on the table for those seeking a short biblical name for their sons, and reentered the US Top 1000 in 2016. A musical namesake is lyricist Ira Gershwin (born Israel), a literary one is Ira Levin, and there are two prominent Iras hosting NPR radio shows.
      • Ivory
        • Origin:

          Word name
        • Description:

          Extremely attractive color name chosen by some African-American families for its reference to the West African Ivory Coast; more commonly used for girls.
      • Juniper
        • Origin:

          English from Latin tree name
        • Meaning:

          "young"
        • Description:

          Juniper is a nature name that we really like. While it's trendiest for girls -- about 2500 baby girls were named Juniper in 2022 versus 34 baby boys -- the most notable Juniper in history was the saint Brother Juniper, a follower of Saint Francis renowned for his generosity. Blessed Junipero Serra, who founded the first of the California Missions, took his name from the earlier Saint Juniper.
      • Kit
        • Origin:

          English, diminutive of Christopher
        • Meaning:

          "bearer of Christ"
        • Description:

          Actor Kit Harington, aka the dreamy Jon Snow on Game of Thrones, has given this nickname-name new style and appeal for boys. Actress Jodie Foster used it for her son.
      • Lake
        • Origin:

          Nature name
        • Description:

          Evocative modern unisex choice brought into the spotlight by actress Lake Bell.
      • Lane
        • Origin:

          English
        • Meaning:

          "a small roadway or path"
        • Description:

          Lane is a recent hit name, that could be used for either gender, but is much more popular for boys. It's a surname that projects the pleasant picture of narrow, tree-lined country roads.