Baby Naming Battles: They Don’t Agree on Anything
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on July 3rd, 2019 at 7:36 am
Some other names I think bridge old man and modern…
Everett, Abel, Ansel, Asa, August, Bennett, Ellis, Emmett, Jonas, Julius, Lennox, Malachi, Silas
on July 3rd, 2019 at 8:09 am
We fought long and hard to come up with a first name to go with James in the middle. He liked names like MIles and Levi and Issac. and I liked classic names like Timothy and Walter. We finally realized that the name we both agreed on was James so we just moved that to the middle spot and since James is my fathers middle name, we used his fathers middle name as well and ended up with our James Louis. So, have you considered moving Winston to the first name spot? It is a name you both agree on to a point, it is a surname and yet a modern name too.
Erin Beth Said
on July 3rd, 2019 at 1:59 pm
I really like the suggestions of Everett, Cole and Hayes, although Hayes with Franklin might be a bit presidential. Other ideas:
Dashiell nn Dash
Erin Beth Said
on July 3rd, 2019 at 2:01 pm
Chase and Forrest just occurred to me as well.
on July 3rd, 2019 at 4:31 pm
Love Abby’s suggestion of Hayes Winston! Hayes def seems like it could bridge both styles. From your lists, I like both Weston (prefer just West) and Davis.
My argument for Winston over Franklin is that the middle name should be one of your choosing, esp if a family name, because baby presumably will carry your husband’s family surname.
Additional names I like for you:
Sullivan, nn Sully or Van
on July 3rd, 2019 at 9:36 pm
What about Edison?
on July 3rd, 2019 at 10:53 pm
My husband and I would be in the same struggle if it were a boy (but just found out it’s a girl!) – I like more modern/trendy and my husband likes traditional. We found surnames as a good middle ground too – although most we liked ended in ‘son’ which was a non-starter since our last name ends in ‘man’! Also a lot of “on” endings in your husbands list so maybe some good potential for common ground there!
Might we suggest…
Benson – classic like Benjamin but just a little unexpected!
Edison/Edison – fresher than Edward but with classic nn Eddie or Ed
Anderson – nn Anders
and some non-“son” sur names…
Montgomery – nn Monty
Crosby – old time classic like Bing but sounds like he’d fit in with today’s Masons and Westons
Beau Jean Said
on July 4th, 2019 at 12:27 pm
Okay Annie, battle, death, refuse, and vetoed are pretty intense words. If you like Winston and he likes Weston I think that you two should be able to figure it out. Ta-MAY-toe Ta-MAH-toe
From the examples you gave, even though the two of you have different naming styles, those styles do not clash with each other. There are so many ways to compromise. One of you picks the first name, one of you picks the middle name. One of you names this baby, one of you names the next baby. Do the two of you agree on girl names? Strike a bargain somewhere, even if it means one of you don’t get your way this time. And guess what, EVERY name is meaningful, especially if you go on a emotional journey to find it. Also, what you would choose now is very likely to be different than what you would choose in ten years because people change. I think your son might grow up and really wish you had named him Maverick. But it doesn’t really matter what I think, anyway here are some of my ideas.
Maverick+Edward+Franklin= Frederick (classic and not common)
Davis+Hudson= Davidson (as in Harley; kinda edgy but not weird)
Hudson makes me think of Gordon or Roger and Hudson means Hugh’s son. I wouldn’t call Hugh a classic, but definitely classy.
on July 4th, 2019 at 3:17 pm
My husband and had the exact same situation, I liked traditional and he wanted trendy, out middle ground ended up being we both likes names with a little bit of western feel and now have two boys Emmett and Harvey. Others names we agreed on were Wyatt, Quentin and Brooks. Best of luck and You’ll get there!
on July 5th, 2019 at 12:42 pm
I think Holden might work well for you both! Good luck!
on July 5th, 2019 at 3:28 pm
Here are some ideas with the same feel I think you guys are after: uncommon, but recognized; cool, but not weird; classic in the sense of having a history of use.
Bennett (from Benedict – blessed)
Rafferty (flood tide, abundance, prosperity)
Stellar / Stellan
Merritt (boundary gate)
Merrick (fame, power) / Merrill
Calloway (pebbly place)
Archer Beau (like an archer’s bow: a beginning point, potential)
on July 6th, 2019 at 6:17 pm
With my first kid (a boy), I felt so strongly about the name that i made the infamous deal with my husband: I’ll name this one and you can name the next one (provided he choose from my list, which he was fine with). No argument with the first, I got to choose Basil Quince. When the second kid, we agreed perfectly on the boy name, so OF COURSE we had a girl…we have pretty different tastes in girls names, so I had to scour Nameberry for a name we could both agree on (because even though we had a weird deal where it was his turn, we were both more comfortable picking a name we both love). We were going to go with Penelope Plum (which I still LOVE), but then we saw how insanely popular Penelope is, so I found one that both of us could enjoy that is WAY less popular: Cecily Plum! I love both our fruity, unique choices soooooo much! Don’t know how we’re going to stick with the fruit theme with the 3rd (is there is a 3rd…)…
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