There are a lot of names I love and enthusiastically encourage other people to use. But when it came to naming my own kids? No way.
The most common reason for championing a name that you wouldn’t use yourself is, of course, cowardice. I think of all the names I considered for my younger son but chickened out on actually using: Penn, Pike, Otis….sigh. I’d lead the cheer if a parent on the Nameberry forums was thinking of one of those wonderful names. But in the end, we went with the much safer Owen.
My husband would tell you that we never really seriously considered Otis, because he hated it. So there’s another reason you might only be able to envision a beloved name on someone else’s child.
Plus, with a last name that starts with S, the truth is we never would have used a first name that ends with an S sound, for fear of confusion. Similarly, you may love elaborate names like Orianna but wouldn’t pair them with your equally-elaborate last name, or shy away from a short name like Tom if your last name is Smith, or avoid favorite ethnic first names such as Maeve or Massimo if they clash with a last name of a distinctly different ethnicity.
So tell us, which name would you love to see….on someone else’s baby? And why?
This wonderful photo is by Grace Weston.