Category: The Nameberry 9
The president hosted a fireside chat on Google+ last week.Â He tackled complex, divisive topics like the environment and the economy.
But baby names?
Giving baby name advice is tough.Â It means sorting names into the good and the bad, or maybe the good and the less good.Â Explaining why we like a name is nearly impossible sometimes, isnâ€™t it?Â Explaining what we dislike can be too easy.
This weekâ€™s news was filled with gorgeous girlsâ€™ names representing every possible style and trend, from imports to underused classics to modern discoveries.
The nine most newsworthy baby names are:
Being a name nerd used to be hard work.
Do you remember paging through lists of Olympic medalists in the paper, gazing at name plaques in art museums, seeking out family trees in history books at the library?Â Did you know exactly which days the local paper ran birth announcements?
Then you must be a thirty-something or better name nerd.
I borrowed my motherâ€™s only baby name book and kept it on my bookshelf, between Sweet Valley High and Nancy Drew.Â I read it obsessively, even the small print listing nicknames and foreign variants.Â That long lost book is where I fell in love with Libby andÂ Nan, Katrinka and Alexei.
So many stories about twenty-first century baby naming trends are dismissive.Â They claim parents are trying too hard for their children to stand out and be unique.
Maybe that happens some of the time, but to me it seems straightforward.
With access to all of these fabulous names, why wouldnâ€™t we consider a wider range of possibilities?
Nine names per week over 51 weeks equals 459 names.Â Theyâ€™re classic, theyâ€™re quirky, and sometimes theyâ€™re downright strange.Â But when I sat down to review a yearâ€™s worth of Nameberry posts, I realized that most of them are actually pretty wearable.
Very few of them repeat â€“ something that surprised me, as it so often seems that a name is suddenly everywhere all at once.Â Some garnered lots of positive comments while others went completely unnoticed.
My favorite comment?Â â€śNo, donâ€™t mention THAT name.Â Itâ€™s the top of our list!â€ťÂ As I scrolled through the posts, there were more than a few groans of disappointment.
The best names, though,Â aren’tÂ necessarily the ones that will be racing up the popularity charts.Â Iâ€™m most attracted to the ones that seem novel â€“ unlikely to catch on, but probably part of a bigger change in how we think about names.
With the holidays in full swing, I thought it was time for a wish list.
Iâ€™d love to magically know how to pronounce every childâ€™s name at first glance.
A crystal ball to find out which noun names will wear well, and which just plain wonâ€™t work.Â Or, alternately, a detailed explanation as to why Pilot and Apple still seem outrageous while Chase and Genesis are mainstream.
A trip to the most fashionable of playgrounds in Paris and the ability to speak fluent French in order to grill expectant mamans about their favorite baby names.Â Cosette probably isnâ€™t one of them â€¦ but in Pittsburgh or Pensacola, I think she could be a smash.Â Or wait, maybe Iâ€™ll visit Toronto, because their list is just different enough from the US to pique my curiosity.
The nine baby names that inspired my wish list are also this weekâ€™s nine most newsworthy appellations:
Some weeks Iâ€™m astonished by the range of names we can choose for girls.
We love our children regardless of gender, but when it comes to talking baby names, many of us seem to be on Team Pink.Â The statistics bear this out: almost 79% of boys born in the US in 2011 received a Top 1000 name, while the same is true for just 67% of girls.
2012 social media babies Like and Facebook were both girls, and rumored baby Hashtag is also supposed to be a she.Â Meanwhile, former #1 name Mary has plummeted to #112, while her male counterpart, John, remains a relatively common #27.