Category: name traditions
Megan , who lives just outside Philadelphia, is expecting her first boy after two little girls in June. Her daughters both have family names, but now her husband, Thomas IV, would like to continue the tradition of naming the boys in his family Thomas, making their son Thomas V. Problem is, mom’s not too keen.
Can you help her find a family name everyone will agree on? Or should she give in to hubby’s desire for a V? She writes:
“We are expecting our third baby and first boy in June.Â It was easy to name our daughters – Aubryn Elizabeth (age 4) was named for my maternal grandmother and Margaret JaneÂ (nn: Maisie, age 20 months) was named for my paternal grandmother and my mother.
If you look at the list of most popular names in the state of Hawaii, you won’t find them very different from others, with Chloe, Isabella and Madison, Ethan, Noah and Isaiah at the top.Â It isn’t until you get quite a bit futher down the list that you find names more reflective of the distinctive native nomenclature, such asÂ Kai, Leilani, Malia, Kainoa, and Kalena.
In the past, names have Â held deep significance in the Hawaiian culture, especially prior to the arrival of English-speaking missionaries in the late 18th century.Â Before that, the choice of a name involved the whole extended family, and was believed toÂ have been Â sent by the familyâ€™s ancestor god, eitherÂ via a dream, a spoken message or some other sign, and to ignore it could mean illness or death to the baby.Â Another Â old tradition was for several wordsâ€” of particular significance to the parents– to be joined together into one long name, which would then be shortened into a nickname.Â Much of this came to an end in 1880,Â when King Kamehameha IV enacted a law mandating that all citizens follow the standard European system of namingâ€”that is using a Christian name followed by a surname–which didn’t exist before.Â Â Â
There are few families of names as lilting, rhythmic, and romantic as indigenous Hawaiian names.Â In both sound and meaning, they evoke pleasant images, many of them related to natureâ€”flowers, the forest, sky and water.Â Part of this flavor derives from the fact that there are only five vowels and seven consonants in the language, making the names rich in vowel sounds, each of which is pronounced as a separate syllable.Â Many English names have been â€śHawaiianized,â€ť Â to accommodate theÂ missing consonants.Â (see below to translate your own name to Hawaiian)
Many, if not most, traditional Hawaiian names are used interchangeably for girls and boys, but here are some that are more or less gender specific, with their meanings and/or English equivalents.Â Note that the accent is always on the next to last syllable.)
Â AKELINAÂ –Â noble (form of Adeline)
ALAMEA –Â ripe, precious
ALANIÂ –Â orange tree
ALOHIÂ –Â shining, brilliant