Category: Name Nerds
Being a name nerd used to be hard work.
Do you remember paging through lists of Olympic medalists in the paper, gazing at name plaques in art museums, seeking out family trees in history books at the library?Â Did you know exactly which days the local paper ran birth announcements?
Then you must be a thirty-something or better name nerd.
I borrowed my motherâ€™s only baby name book and kept it on my bookshelf, between Sweet Valley High and Nancy Drew.Â I read it obsessively, even the small print listing nicknames and foreign variants.Â That long lost book is where I fell in love with Libby andÂ Nan, Katrinka and Alexei.
So many stories about twenty-first century baby naming trends are dismissive.Â They claim parents are trying too hard for their children to stand out and be unique.
Maybe that happens some of the time, but to me it seems straightforward.
With access to all of these fabulous names, why wouldnâ€™t we consider a wider range of possibilities?
Watch out, Berries–today’s guest blogger, Claire Shefchik, has plenty of bones to pick!
Since the age of six, Iâ€™ve loved names. Â Back then, whenever I renamed myself, I was Crystal (spelled Christal) and later, Jordan. Â These days, I prefer Presley to Penelope, Jayden to Jasper. Â In the novel Iâ€™m writing, two of the main characters are Dempsey and Vaughan–female characters. Eek! Â Thatâ€™s right, I am a name heretic.
When, a few years ago, I came across the Nameberry-led community of Internet naming enthusiasts, I thought Iâ€™d found heaven (sorry, â€śnevaehâ€ť). Â But I found myself, more often than not, at odds with my fellow â€śname nerds.â€ť Â Many claim to be open-minded and liberal, but are much more rigid in their approach to naming than youâ€™d think, especially when it comes to names popular with, as one poster put it, “the Wal-Mart set.” Â Another poster declared her goal was to encourage â€śclassically-named babies,â€ť which letâ€™s face it, is just a euphemism for “babies with names of which I, as the self-appointed arbiter of taste, approve.â€ť
We first talked with the lovely Natalie Hanson, whose husband is musical star Taylor Hanson, when she named her fourth child the amazing Viggo Moriah. Â Not only is Natalie a celebrity mom, she’s a name nerd! Â We’re delighted and honored to welcome Natalie to Nameberry as a guest blogger. Â Here, she looks back on the names she and her husband chose for their four young children and what she’s thinking about for names for her fifth, due this fall.
This October I will celebrate ten years since I first took my adolescent name research and applied it to an actual human being.Â This upcoming anniversary has inspired me to look back on the names my husband and I gave to our four children, the ways we chose them, and how theyâ€™ve worked out.Â Â Have each of my choices lived up to my hopes? Was my perception of each nameâ€™s potential correct, or â€śahead of its timeâ€ť? Â Our name stories:
Todayâ€™s Question of the Week was inspired by a suggestion from anniebee:
What iffy reactions have some of your choices gotten from non-name fans?
Have you ever gotten a quizzical look, a raised eyebrowâ€”or worseâ€”in response to one of your faves, a name known and loved on Nameberry, but which others out there in the nonberry world might never have even heard beforeâ€”or else find hopelessly old-fashioned?
What is the most extreme reaction youâ€™ve received to your name choice either while you were still consideringÂ it or after you had already usedÂ it for your child?
What was your response to their response?
Question of the Week: How and when did you get interested in names?
When you were little, did you love getting new dolls just so you could name them?Â Did you create large imaginary elaborately-named families?
As a teen, did you obsess about your future children’s names, writingÂ various possibilities in the margins of your notebooks?
Or was it onlyÂ until you were actuallyÂ pregnant, when it became a realistic imperative, that you became hooked on names?