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The Question of the Week:

Who makes the ultimate baby name decisions in your family?

Does Mom run around gathering baby name ideas, while Dad makes the ultimate judgment (as it sometimes seems from the discussion of this topic on our forums)?

Or do both partners discuss, but Mom gets the ultimate say?

Do you truly decide as a team, with both partners’ opinions weighted equally?

Or is it complicated….in which case you’ve got to give us all the details!

First, take the poll below.

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Baby Name Battles: Lost or Won?

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The Question of the Week:

Has a favorite name of yours ever been–or tried to be– vetoed by your partner?

How did you handle it?  Did you try to convince him or her?  Did you win the battle?

Did you start to see the other’s point of view?

Will you try again and bring the same name up again next time around?

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6 Ways Not To Fight About Baby Names

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Conceiving your child may have made you feel, more than any other step you’ve taken together, as if you and your spouse had finally and truly become one. Choosing its name can remind you that, nope, you’re still actually two.

There are all those people with all those names that each of you knew and loved or hated before you met each other.  If you and your spouse draw up individual lists of your favorite names, chances are you’ll cross off half of each other’s picks because you went to third grade with an Elizabeth whose nose was always running, or had a college roommate named Daniel who told terrible jokes.

Couples who successfully negotiate religious differences and complicated family holidays sometimes find themselves stymied by conflicting name ideas and requirements. One couple we know, for instance, compromised his Jewish and her Catholic backgrounds by attending a Unitarian church, but when naming their baby hit a deep divide when he wanted to follow religious tradition and give their child a name that started with the same letter as that of his recently deceased grandmother, and she bucked against being pinned down to names beginning with S.

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