Category: Abby Sandel
We are expecting our second child, a daughter, in four weeks and we are completely stumped on a name. We already have a son called Rex and his name was really the only one we could agree on but we both loved it; it fitted instantly. This time we have a lot of names that we both like but nothing that is ‘the one’.
We really want a name for our daughter that is strong, feminine, and not too frilly and, ideally, has the potential for nicknames. We are looking outside the top 100 names (we are in the UK so on the UK list) and want it to be interesting rather than popular or faddy.
Names we have on our shortlist are:
By Abby Sandel
Everybody loves Eackma. It’s tops in the US, huge in France, big in Italy and Ireland, loved by the Dutch, and a favorite in Spain and Scandinavia, too. This week, we learned that Emma is Number 1 in Switzerland, favored by parents who speak Italian, French, and German.
At the same time, plenty of parents are working to choose a name that’s less popular. Some avoid the Top Ten, but stick with Top 100 choices like Piper or Stella. Others worry that Esme and Magnolia are too popular now that they’ve cracked the Top 1000.
Many of the baby names in the news this week are rare – in some cases, nearly one-of-one choices.
I have racked my brain for a second boy’s name and just cannot land upon one.
I would like the new little one to have the middle name Stanley after my grandfather. But we do not have any more male family names to work from for first names.
In addition, we’re avoiding names that start with A, D, M, or J. I come from a large family and know how great it is to be able to label things with first initials!
Our last name is short, starts with an S, and has a long ‘ee’ sound, like sea.
By Abby Sandel
Filler middle names are a thing of the past.
It’s a 21st century baby naming reality. Not only do we obsess over finding the perfect first name, we have to find middles that hit the right note, too.
That wasn’t always the case. If you were born in the 1980s, there’s a good chance that your parents named you Melissa Ann. Or maybe you’re Heather Marie. In the last decade or two, names like Rose and Grace became favorite middles for girls.
We’d love some other suggestions – preferably not unisex.
Other names we considered:
Quinn – Also unisex
Henry – Too popular
Tucker – I don’t love it
Miles- Husband is unsure
The middle name will be James.
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