How would you describe your favorite name style?, asked a recent Nameberry Question of the Week.Â Do you prefer cool names?Â Classic?Â Stylish?Â Or what?
Which put me in mind of trying to characterize my own name style.Â You might think that we at Nameberry were born knowing our personal name styles, since weâ€™ve made a life’s work of classifying names into styles and helping other people figure out what kinds of names they love.
But like the shoemakerâ€™s child, Iâ€™d never really defined my own name style until Linda posted this question.Â I definitely like vintage names, I decided, along with names that are a bit unusual.Â Cool names, but not too cool.Â Classy, yet quirky.
And then the right term for it came to me: Eccentric Aristocrat. Â You know, the kind of names that might belong to madcap lords and exotic baronesses (baronessi?) dashing around the countryside in yellow roadsters, drinking champagne and weekending at castles.
Yes, itâ€™s a little bit British, but itâ€™s also kind of Eurotrash and pretty F. Scott Fitzgerald and Edith Wharton sophisticated American too.Â Â Eccentric Aristocrat names hint at a Russian count as a grandfather, a Scottish pile as an inheritance, ancient relatives who have to be honored with highly unfashionable names â€“ except now that you think about it, those names are actually kind of cool.
Regular readers of Nameberry will recognize the Eccentric Aristocrat in many of the names that, not coincidentally, are favorites on this site: Violet and Jasper, Flora and Felix.Â Those are the kinds of names that Iâ€™d choose for my own children.Â (The fact that I didnâ€™t choose those kinds of names for my own children is another story, one that starts with my husbandâ€™s name style being more Solid Midwestern than Eccentric Aristocrat.)
A few rules on what makes a name an Eccentric Aristocrat:
2.Â Â It must have a distinct gender identification, but not a conventional one. The name Inigo is clearly male, while India plainly female.Â Â Yet Inigo might just as well design clothes as play football, and India seems as appropriate a name for an international financier as for a supermodel.
3. It must be attractive but not beautiful. Think the highest quality Scottish cashmere, slightly moth-eaten.Â Forget the usual standards of melody and flow.Â Like rubber wellies paired with a ballgown, Eccentric Aristocrat names are more provocative than pleasing.
But enough with the theory.Â Here are some examples of Eccentric Aristocrat names beyond those already mentioned.Â Iâ€™ll leave the more obvious choices such as Beatrix and Barnaby to real life and go further out on the edge.
I know youâ€™re itching to add more, so let’s hear them!