To find out the sex or not?

[thefairophelia]

I agree not knowing is more exciting (and you can always do a gender neutral nursery like we did), but the most important thing is that you are both happy with your choice - glad you managed to find a compromise!

[jadelinnell]

We did not find out and it was the best surprise! It's not so hard to have neutral nursery and infant clothes..

[clarashanks]

Bergner's work puts what might be the last nail in the box of the old agreement that women use sex as a way to get something different they genuinely need, for example, persevering monogamous passionate closeness and the products and security that come in marriage with a defender and supplier.

[summs]

I wanted to know with both of mine. I felt much better prepared. It's still a surprise, if you find out at birth or sooner.