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  1. #16
    Join Date
    Dec 2013
    I have to agree that this situation will likely get worse. I am weighing in about the impact on the child. My father was controlling and abusive. I could tell you many stories, but I will simply say that my sisters and I have all been in abusive relationships. Fortunately we do not have any brothers as statistically they would have a high chance of carrying on the family tradition of being the abuser.

    You must think of your child's future. I'm sure that you are. We tend to heavily weigh having our children's fathers in their lives - as we should - but we need to keep it in proportion to all of their needs.

    I encourage you to seek couseling for yourself so that you can make the best decision for you and your son. Please do not let him talk you into having more children. If you decide to leave, two babies will just make it more difficult to leave.

    I will keep you in my thoughts.
    Last edited by pamjsg99; February 11th, 2019 at 09:34 PM.

  2. #18
    Join Date
    Jul 2017
    I hope this user is okay.

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