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    Two weeks until due date, and I need advice!

    This is my first baby, and, months ago, my husband and I had narrowed down our possible boy names to Edmund and Gareth. Days before the 20-week ultrasound, DH admitted that he wasn't a huge fan of those names. (I love them.)

    So, I went back to the drawing board. I tried to include more common names on the list--names that I used to love, before I began to really explore the possibilities. I was still on the fence about some of them, but I figured we could talk it out and find some common ground. Here's the list:


    DH was okay with Henry, Samuel, Benjamin, Luke, and Daniel, but he liked Thomas the best. Thomas is one of the names I used to love, but it had started seeming a little plain to me, so I hadn't really considered it. But I decided I could love it again. So, we chose Thomas as our boy name; a few days later, we found out we were having a boy.

    We told people. I wish we hadn't, but we did. As far as we were concerned, the baby in my belly was named Thomas, and that's that. All our family and friends know him as Thomas.

    But then I started to second-guess the name. I kept silent about it, though, because it felt like the decision was already made. He's already Thomas. When DH and a few family members started referring to him as "Tommy," I questioned it even more. I do love the name Thomas. But Tommy? I wouldn't have chosen Tommy as a name for my son.

    Last week, I gave in and spoke to DH about it. He feels like it's too late to change the name (and, more importantly, he doesn't WANT to change it), but he agreed to stop calling him Tommy.

    I know I could push the issue. If I reeeaaally wanted to, I could change the name. But even a part of me feels like it's too late. And what would I even change it to? My favourites on the list are Edmund, Gareth, and Arthur, but DH just doesn't love those names, and it doesn't seem fair of me to try to pull a trump card.

    I need help! Or maybe I just need reassurance that Thomas is fine.

    His last name will be Russell. Is Thomas Russell a good, solid, traditional name? Or just completely boring?

    tlrd; WDYT of the name Thomas? And is it ever too late to change your mind about a baby's name?

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