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January 22nd, 2014 06:38 PM #26
I grew up with a name in the 500's range, and have always have to introduce myself twice. It's funny, because I think it's a fairly straightforward name, but as a Julie/Julia derivative I guess it has a few female and male variations, so that might do it. My name's also long; it's only 3 syllables but it just sounds long to say, and I find people don't address me by name very often, so much so that when they do it feels weird and overly personal. As a child I wanted to be named Hannah. I thought it was the most beautiful name ever, and so much cooler than my name.
But even still, as an adult I am so much more attracted to unusual names. Some very common names begin to feel so bland to me, names like Sarah, Jennifer, and Jessica from the 80's/90's and Emma, Olivia, and Ava of today. They seem so dull that it almost is like not having a name that gives you an identity. None of the Sarah's I know are just Sarah to me, it's always Sarah lastname, Sarah from x activity, etc. I can't really put a number on how many I have to meet before a name begins to feel that way.
I find I'm attracted to girls names that give me a spark. It's not that I don't love some popular names, I really do. Ruby and Clara are some of my favourite names, and I still might use them, but I just can't get as excited about them as my non-1000 ones. It's not the number, or worrying about them having more than one in their class. I can't describe what it is, but I think it comes from a lot of places. Being an introvert, I want to give my kids something unique to just them. I'm attracted to short and spunky names, since mine is so long and classic. I also love names with diminutive nicknames, since I never had one that was used by anyone other than my immediate family.
My boys' names aren't quite the same, though they are similarly short and cool. I'm definitely going to have a son named Leo no matter how high it goes, unless I start hearing them everywhere.
I'm sure I probably just attach way too much significance to names, but I see it as such an ingrained part of our identities. That's what makes me such a name nerd
January 22nd, 2014 08:20 PM #28
If I see a name too often, it just loses its spark for me. If I truly love a name, I will use it regardless, however I think my own name has influenced me to subconciously seek names that are out of the ordinary. My name is Sarah. I was one of dozens of Sarahs/Saras in my school growing up. One of them even had the same last name as me. I would never fault someone for chosing a popular name.Mommy of Juniper Teagan & Pyrus Nikolai
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January 22nd, 2014 08:56 PM #30Senior Member
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Another cool thing I learned through researching on the social security website...
In 2012, one of my favorite girl names, Vera, was in the 500 spot with 608 girls receiving the name. #504 was Aspen, at 601 girls. Really. A difference of 7 babies. #500 for boys, Brenden, went to 528 boys. Kobe, at #506, went to 518 boys. A difference of 10 babies. Around #600, the names are given to around 400 babies. Essentially, the further down the list you go, a difference 4 dozen people nationwide naming their kids something one year versus the next, can make a name sail up or down the charts as much as 50 places. The end of the top 1000, the boys names were all just shy of 200 babies, and the girl names were in the 250 babies range. 198 people believed Apollo (#993) to be a fitting name for their son in 2012. If, in 2013, 228 people decided Apollo is a fitting name for their son, it will have shot up almost 100 places, to around the 900 mark. Yes, with a difference of only 30 babies.
I could geek out on the social security baby names website for hours.......
January 22nd, 2014 09:32 PM #32Junior Member
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I grew up with a name that was/is very unfamiliar to a lot of Americans. (I'm originally from Germany, so this wasn't taken into consideration.) My name is Giulia. To be honest, my mom misspelt it on my birth certificate as Guilia, but I grew up spelling it the correct way. I absolutely loved having a unique name. Yes, the majority of people can't pronounce it, absolutely nobody can spell it, and paired with my German surname it can be a complete disaster. I've even had my name butchered as "Gorilla" in front of an entire classroom of kids. But this has only made my love for unique names even stronger.
I feel like the top 10/50/100 names are everywhere. Although only a marginal percentage of children are given the names, they are also the names used in entertainment and media we see/hear/read on a daily basis. Although they might not be the final name chose for a child, they are discussed as possibilities by a lot of parents. Ultimately, it all comes down to personal choice, preference and love for the name. I would never give my child a name I felt I heard too much of. At the same time, I do love names in the top 20/50/100 (Sebastian, James, Charles, etc.) Above all else, a parent has to love what ever name they chose for a child. It really doesn't matter how popular a name is as long as the parent is choosing it because they love it.
January 22nd, 2014 11:29 PM #34
My name was in the top five the year I was born, yet there were no other girls with my name in my grade in elementary school and only one in my high school. We live in a big world and today I still only occasionally run into anyone with my name. It all comes down to demographics.
Also, I’d like to put it out there that popular names are popular for a reason. They embody all the positive traits that parents want to imbue in their kids. Why wouldn’t a parent want to name their daughter Sophia? It means wisdom and is pretty without being fluffy.
Ultimately everyone on this website will have a different take on this subject. All I know is that I won’t let statistics keep me from using a name that is truly phenomenal.TTC 2014
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