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September 6th, 2013 05:02 PM #41
Oh my goodness, what a judgmental species we are.
I've had mine pierced my entire life. So did my aunts, my cousins, my grandmothers, etc. It's part of my culture. When I have a little lass, I'll probably continue the tradition. None of the dozens (hundreds?) of women I know whose ears were pierced as babies have lopsided, scarred piercings nor do any of them resent their parents. It's a total non-issue for me, but at least now I know all the horrified mamas clutching their pearls will be thinking I'm trashy.
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September 6th, 2013 05:10 PM #43
I'm always surprised to see people with such strong opinions about baby girls with pierced ears. I didn't even know this was an issue before joining Nameberry. I had my ears pierced when I was a few weeks old and wore earrings pretty much every day until fourth grade. I went through a phase where I basically considered myself a boy in 3rd/4th grade, so of course I had no desire to wear earrings. I grew out of that, but I just never bothered to put my earrings back in. I couldn't care less one way or the other if a baby girl has pierced ears. It's just kind of an odd thing to have an opinion about.♂ | Samuel ◊ Edward ◊ George ◊ Arthur ◊ Ezra ◊ Dean ◊ Micah ◊ Gideon ◊ Tobias ◊ Jasper
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September 6th, 2013 06:08 PM #45
It's painful and I wouldn't want to inflict pain on my infant, I don't know how parents handle the screaming....
September 6th, 2013 06:29 PM #47
My mom pierced my ears when I was two. She says that I actually asked for them to be pierced, but I can't remember. Anyways, I'm kind of glad that I asked for them back then because it eventually led to me to getting more ear piercings and I love them.Ingrid Genevieve | Evanna Yvaine | Winifred Pearl | Astra Gillian | Hazel Odette
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September 6th, 2013 06:36 PM #49
While I don't think it's tacky or trashy I will definitely not be piercing a baby girl's ears or circumcising a boy. To me they are both cosmetic procedures and I don't feel comfortable making those decisions for someone else. If they later choose to permanently modify their body that is their decision to make and not mine. Raising them to be a particular religion or dietary preference isn't quite comparable. Those things are not permanent, they can later choose to simply not follow those practices. You can't un-pierce an ear and un-circumcising is rather complicated.
I was 13 when I got my ears pierced the first time and 16 for the second hole. Both are now stretched, I have 4g and 8g tunnels that I adore.
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