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September 3rd, 2013 08:45 PM #1
Finally some closure...yet bittersweet...
I havent been on here as much since losing our baby. It is almost like the baby fever was totally drained out of me. And it is hard to see everyone discussing names for their babies who are due. But as weird as this sounds, since AF showed up yesterday after the MC it gave me closure while still being a bittersweet moment. Its like my body had a switch turn on and I feel a lot better since it happened. After I first announced losing the baby a lot of people told me they waited a year which I thought I would never do or couldnt do but after everything we have endured I feel like waiting a year is perfect. Just had to vent some and get back into the NB swing of things.
Thanks!Little Bird Due November 2015!
September 3rd, 2013 08:53 PM #3Senior Member
- Join Date
- Dec 2012
- Adelaide Australia
I'm very sorry for your loss and hope you continue to find healing.Thrilled to be mother to @gnes Ei1ish Madeline and Fe1icity Bridget Be@trice
If we'd had boys the list was: Godfrey, Seamus, Alexander, Michael, Felix, Peter, Ignatius & Sebastian.
September 3rd, 2013 09:25 PM #5
I'm so glad to hear you feel you've taken another step down the path to healing. There's no right or wrong way when it comes to grieving, just give yourself time to heal and you'll know when the time is right to try again, whether that be next week, next month or next year. All our love & support!Mummy of One:
-- Dominic Jameson: 3rd November 2013
Dom's future brother/s: Bennett, Bowen, Ciaran, Elijah, Elliott, Emmett, Finnegan, Grayson, Harrison, Quentin
Dom's future sister/s: Aveline, Aven, Calla, Eleanor, Helena, Iris, Noelle, Rosalie, Sadie, Wren
September 3rd, 2013 10:11 PM #7Senior Member
- Join Date
- Jan 2012
sorry for your loss. I also lost the baby a few weeks ago. i understnad where you are coming from. as a name lover i just didnt care. but at the sametime people here have helped also. i pray for your healing. and your not alone. we are looking at 6 months to a year depending. if you need anything message me.Married my best friend 5/11/13, mommy to Murron Lydia Genevieve 10/20
Alice Hazel, Helena Faye,Cleora Beatrice,Gloria Charlotte, Sylvia Edith,Lior Inez
Solomon Jace, Gideon Charles, Henry , Waylon, Arlo, Mordecai
September 3rd, 2013 11:23 PM #9
It is so hard, and I am glad you are letting yourself feel the pain and begin to heal instead of brushing it aside like it never happened. I had 2 losses in between Vio and Wolfie and I too felt the "baby fever drained out of me" and began to question ever having another...You have lots of support here, talk through it anytime. Lots of love. <3Married to my love since August 2001
My lovely bunch of coconuts;
Sebastian Elihu (7/02)
Bronwen Eliza (2/04)
Linus Ezra Graham (9/06)
Violet Leona (1/09) and
Wolfgang Levi (3/13)
Always missing our Felix Emmanuel (10/10-10/10)