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Thread: HELP! Hubby is NUTS!
August 4th, 2013 04:10 PM #71Senior Member
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Oh wow, I totally feel your pain! Not a totally similar situation, but there are some aspects that are...
My husband and I were living in Ohio. We signed a year lease and decided once it was up, we were moving to Florida. We hated the cold, depressing weather and had tons of friends and family moving down there. Well, I got pregnant. My due date was Jan. 28 and our lease was up the end of Feb. Baby girl ended up coming on Feb. 1. It was not a c-section, but she was just shy of 10 lbs (no health problems, just large babies runs in my husband's family). Long story short, the birth of her (sans meds) - I didn't shed a tear and didn't think it was that bad. The recovery - I was crying constantly; I had never been in so much pain in my entire life. Two weeks after her birth, I had to have reconstructive surgery "down there." It was a nightmare. About a week later, we were packing up our house and made the 17+ hour drive down to Florida with a newborn and cat in tow. The doctor said she wasn't thrilled with me doing it but she knew she couldn't stop me. She just stressed that we make frequent stops so I could get out, stretch my legs and walk a little bit to prevent blood clots. The trip ended up not being so bad. Actually, now that she's 2.5, I think traveling with a newborn is the MOST ideal (although I totally get the germ concerns on an airplane). She slept 4 hours straight then would wake up to be changed and fed and then right back to sleep. With an older infant or toddler, you'd have to really entertain them and they'd be whiny and restless.
Banking on a normal delivery and her arrival being fairly "on time," I'd say do it. Just as you said, it's been planned for a while and it's a ton of family coming that he rarely gets to see. You're going to be stressed out, worried and a hormonal mess, but if you can physically do it, just do it. Keep the baby in a wrap (i.e. Moby Wrap) with her facing you and close to your body for the trip. If you need to forego the actual parks and just hang with your little gal in the hotel and taking short strolls around the grounds while everyone else goes to the parks, then do that. I would venture to say 2-3 weeks out from even vaginal birth is too soon to be walking that much (I'm sure your doc would back you up on that).
Good luck!Mom to Nora Cathleen.
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August 6th, 2013 02:26 AM #73Member
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Our babe was due on December 21 last year. As soon as we found out, I immediately told both of our families that we would not be making any Christmas plans at all. I didn't want the stress of committing to plans (that would be an hour drive away from our home). Seriously, I wouldn't go if I were. You. Is about you this time, not them. You did good leaving it up to your husband if he wants to go or stay.
Our babe came 9 days early on 12/12/12, but I took a LONG time to recover, down there, and we barely did anything at Christmas, and it was just fine. There's no way in heck I'd be walking around an amusement park, that's for sure!My heart - Leonidas Alexander Sanad - 12/12/12