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July 26th, 2013 11:23 AM #21
No children of my own yet. But I just wanted to add that my godmother's husband had a vasectomy after their second son. The first two were born in 1998 and 2000, their littlest guy, however, was conceived after his Dad's vasectomy and is just about to turn two/three. It's such a big age gap and even though he was unplanned everyone adores him!
'Jess' Jessica Emily Faith
Living down under...
Elsa: Mystical, magical, completely unique, baffling and all her own
Ronan: Spicy, little boys wearing plaid shirts, running around in kneeless jeans, playing in the mud and being mischievous.
Mary Belle - Conrad - Elaina/Elena? - Jonas
July 26th, 2013 03:39 PM #23Senior Member
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- Jan 2013
Thanks for all the thoughtful replies, they are much appreciated.
After a lot of reflecting and careful thinking, we have decided against having any procedures for the time being.
I think the reason we're no longer inclined to get it done is because I realised that because we had the girls young, they'll be out of home young. I won't be menopausal by the time Amelie leaves for college and I can see myself getting lonely with an empty nest, when most of my friends will still have young children then.
We're going to reconsider this decision in the future of course, but I can no longer see myself getting any permanent procedures (or my husband) until the kids are in college. Even though I feel absolutely completely done now, and I'm confident in our decision to stop at two, I can also see myself wanting another when they leave for college. So we'll discuss it again then.
Mama to Amelie Clara (2008) & Daisy Madeline (2013).
Alice Tallulah, Polly Matilda, Rosalie Faye, Lucy Annabel, Maya Lillian, Hazel Kate, Eva Blossom, Juliet Lila, Ivy Camille.
Charles Joshua "Charlie", Theodore Samuel "Teddy", Elliott Daniel, Noah Zachary, James Oscar, Arthur Philip, Rowan Isaac.
July 26th, 2013 03:41 PM #25Senior Member
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- Mar 2011
- Midwest USA
DH is 31, I am not yet 29, we had three babies in three years and he got the big V within four months of our youngest being born. We weren't too worried about it either - BUT we have always planned to adopt, so I'm perfectly happy to adopt many many more!Caity
Mom of Violet Isabelle, George Quincy, & Mae Elizabeth
In the process of adopting #4 from Haiti.
. Ruby Madeleine . Felicity Catherine . Beatrice Claire . Robin Marie .
. Harvey Leopold . Albert Darcy . Ralph Montgomery . Edgar Willoughby .
July 26th, 2013 04:59 PM #27Senior Member
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- Sep 2012
When my hubby and I met, about 3 days into it he told me that after we were done having kids he'd immediately go get snipped. That's one of the reasons I knew he was the oneMother of Gabriel Christian, #2 (finally!) on the way!!!!
DH finally agreed baby boy could be:
Emrys, Sebastian, Atticus, Sage, Abraham, Ambrose
We're still discussing middle names....