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July 6th, 2013 02:43 AM #23Senior Member
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Hmm, well in general i judge children by how they behave, as another poster said up-thread. But i do sort of assume things about the parents sometimes. Like I've yet to meet a Paisley (and all alternate spellings) whose mom wasn't an airhead whose biggest concern in life is preparing her 2-year old to be a future cheerleader. That isn't to say that every person who chooses the name Paisley is like that, but I've met enough that i sort of assume it with some names.
It wouldn't ever affect how i treat a child or their parents, and I'm always happy to be proven wrong. But sometimes i make those assumptions, and i don't think there's any harm in that if it isn't coming from a mean place. All the moms of Paisleys i know are lovely people and fun to talk to...just have different aspirations for themselves and their kids, and that's fine. Like i said, as long as it doesn't affect how you treat someone, i think having that assumption isn't in itself a bad thingI hope to be a mom one day. For now I enjoy being a name lover.
My apologies for any typos; i post from my mobile phone.