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May 12th, 2013 11:36 PM #11
May 13th, 2013 12:19 AM #13
This is a hard situation, and I'm just lucky that DH isn't a native English speaker. He mainly vetoes names based on whether they sound too feminine to him (like Eli), or they are difficult for his family to say (like Sterling). I personally love Elias, Darius, and Sterling, and I kind of see these 3 as a happy middle ground... you may just need to compromise. After all, it is important to remember that while you need to like the name, it involves not only the both of you, but also the child... so ultimately what will matter is whether or not HE likes the name. My brother and sister-in-law had big problems naming their children (he liked old-fashioned, short names, and she liked... well, trendy, almost unisex names)... and they could not agree. So, finally they decided that my brother named the first one, and she named the second. However, the partner not naming the child still got a veto. This at least assured that the kid wouldn't get a crazy name or a name you absolutely hate. When the third was a girl, they had an easier time agreeing. I'm not sure whether or not such a system would work for you, but it is something to consider (especially if you plan to have more children).Emiliana Pari Debuts July 2014Soren Pasha, Caspian Bardia, Raphael
May 13th, 2013 12:41 AM #15Senior Member
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An afterthought, you mentioned Jude. Does he like Jude? Jude Rowan? Rowan Elijah Jude? Elias Jude? Jude Elias?
I still really like/suggest Elijah Leonidas nn Elias. You both win. He gets his first name, you get your middle name and nickname. (If you take "Eli" from Elijah and then the "as" from Leonidas)
Do you really hate Zane? I think it's nice and I definitely have your style of names over his. Zane Apollo or Zane Elias or Zane Leonidas are all nice!
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May 13th, 2013 02:05 PM #17Senior Member
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Elijah Leonidas is a great idea, but I have feeling if I went with that, NO ONE would call him Elias except for me. Which I guess wouldn't be the end of the world...
Zane. Meh. First of all, it rhymes with Dad's name, which IMO is confusing and annoying. I suggested we used the name Lysander, and call him Zane for short, but that was vetoed.
I *think* he might be back on board with Rowan. I'm not sure. Lots of good suggestions in this thread, though (and BTW - I'm open to totally new suggestions of names not on our lists), so we've got lots to think about.Lillian Elizabeth 6.16.13
May 13th, 2013 02:08 PM #19Senior Member
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