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Thread: NOT finding out the sex
May 11th, 2013 09:02 AM #41
@Frances322 -- I love this advice, thank you so much for sharing! I am 10 weeks tomorrow and hubby and I decided we do want to find out as soon as possible. And what your OB said reinforces our decision. Thank you! <hugs>
May 11th, 2013 10:13 AM #43Senior Member
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If I had been really hoping for one sex or the other, I might have chosen to find out.
And until I got pregnant, whenever I heard people say they didn't care if it was a boy or a girl, I didn't really believe them. I thought they were just saying that to sound grateful or not get their hopes up or something. But then I got pregnant, and I can honestly say I have ZERO preference to whether it's a boy or girl.Lillian Elizabeth 6.16.13
May 11th, 2013 03:48 PM #45Senior Member
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I had always thought I would wait to find out the sex, but after the surprise of twins at the first ultrasound we decided we'd had quite enough surprises and ended up finding out. I am not sure what I would do in the future with a singleton though...Mama to my boys, the 'twinadoes', and a little Tingeling.
May 11th, 2013 04:58 PM #47Junior Member
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With my first I really wanted a girl and wanted to find out so that I could mentally prepare if it was a boy, it didn't matter because she was a girl anyway. With #2 I didn't really care, but for found out for practicality. I picked out a name, bought some boys clothes form etc.
With my last two I already had all the clothes from their siblings and didn't mind the gender so I didn't find out. I don't like surprises but it's not exactly going to be really all that surprising, it's a boy or a girl!
I refuse to tell people the name before the birth, I don't care what my family think of the name and once the baby is here and named they are much less likely to say anything negative about the name I had my heart set on. People still offer name suggestions, often their own names...
May 11th, 2013 05:09 PM #49
Do whatever makes you happy!
We like to find out the sex, but that is what makes us happy.Anxiously awaiting a brother or sister for Luther Wolf, due November/15!
Currently loving: Cassia, Dahlia, Rowan, Elowen, Clara, Hazel, Magnus and Griffin.