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Thread: Baby Showers
May 4th, 2013 07:42 AM #6
I've only been to pre-baby showers. I've never heard of a shower post baby!
I know people may disagree with me, but I think it's tacky to have showers for each kid. For me, showers are to give mom gifts for baby because she's never had one before. She doesn't need another crib/ stroller/ etc. my only exception to this is if there is a large 10+ years between kids. This happened to my friend... She had her first two early in her marriage, and then a little oops. She had given everything away at that point.Little Bean arriving September 2014
Zoe | Noemí Esther
Lucas Emmanuel | Levi Alexander
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May 4th, 2013 08:02 AM #8
I didn't even know people had post-baby showers, but I don't see anything wrong with it. Pre-baby seems to make more sense since you can take all your baby shower goodies and start nesting. It gives you time to get all settled and prepared. But post-baby makes sense if family members can't make several trips and they want to see the little one along with everyone else.
I think multiple showers are strange. But, this is coming from someone who blanched at the thought of having a bridal shower (seriously, isn't a wedding present enough?) Soooo there's that.Mom to baby Leo
May 4th, 2013 10:00 AM #10
I've never even heard of a baby shower happening amongst any of my relatives or friends. I don't think they're as common over here in Brit Land. The closest thing my family would get to it is having a party afterwards at the 'family base' to wet the baby's head- so I'd say post-baby. And that'd probably happen after every child because we're a close bunch who love getting together And I love the idea of getting books for the baba! Clothes and such will be useful, but they'll quickly grow out of them. They can keep the special book for life!
So as someone that's never been to a baby shower- what exactly happens? Do you just get all your mates together and get given baby-gifts?
May 4th, 2013 10:12 AM #12Senior Member
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C&P; nope we don't do them over here! I've been to one baby shower (one!) and that was one my friends and I threw for one of my dearest girlfriends after her boyfriend told her - when she was seven months pregnant - that he did not want to be a dad and went back to Australia. So she was a 24 year old student all on her own (family's abroad) and we decided to give her everything she needed for the baby. OK, digression. I did not have a baby shower. Neither did my American/Aussie friends who live over here. I (excuse me for saying) find it weird that you ask your friends to buy cribs and buggies and all that stuff. Over here people bring presents when they come to see the baby; clothes, toys, books, cute stuff. My parents bought us a stroller, my boyfriend's parents the car seat.
I don't think it matters if you have the shower before or after the baby's born. I get why some people would wait until the baby is there safe and sound. I think a big shower where you get mama&newborn essentials is a bit weird with the second child, you should have everything you need. But you could have a mini-shower where you get more things like I mentioned earlier. But to each their own!My darling Marian Illyria Aphrodite, March 2013 & Little Bunny (a girl!) due 9th of February 2014
May 4th, 2013 10:32 AM #14
And I agree- I would feel weird throwing a party where people are expected to buy you stuff :/