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Thread: Private vs Public Schooling
August 1st, 2013 02:17 PM #81
California) for 11 years. My preschool wasn't in the public school system.
Fortunately, my school district is fairly decent, and I've always been able to attend the schools that perform high academically. My high school is pretty diverse, economically and nationality wise. We have probably more than 50 clubs, we're very college oriented, and offer plenty of advanced courses (AP & honors courses). However, I can totally see how California is 41st in the nation for public education. Some of the surrounding districts make me shudder (Which makes me sound completely snobbish, but it's true. I sympathize with the kids in said districts who truly care about their education, because they're limited to what their district can offer)
Honestly, I think schooling just depends on the child, area, and financial situation. I know that I wouldn't thrive in an all girls school, simply because I've always had trouble connecting with other girls. I've never been a "girly girl" (not that you need to be one to have friends that are girls) and I can sometimes be socially awkward, so I don't really get along best with girls. Don't get me wrong, two of my best friends are girls, but the other two are boys. Haha XD Anyway, it didn't really matter, because (financially) I wouldn't ever be able to attend private schools.
Anyway, it's good that you've thought of this now and that you have an idea of what you guys want to do. My aunt started looking for schools for my cousin when she was about 2. She took tons of tours as well, and my cousin (more than a decade later) has had the best experiences at her various levels of schooling.Sari, high school senior.
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August 1st, 2013 02:39 PM #83Member
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- West Helena, AR
America, so there will definitely be some differences.
I have always known that I want to send my children to private school. I'd prefer co-ed. Private schools are usually a better environment than most public schools (at least in my area). I also believe that most private schools have more opportunities for parent involvement and feels more like a family setting.
I am also considering homeschooling, is that something you're considering? The only downside is the lack of social interaction with peers.
Bottom line: Private school is the way to go! Homeschooling can also be a good option, if your child does extra curricular activities where he/she can interact with other children his/her age.Sincerely, Jennifer
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August 1st, 2013 03:01 PM #85
School is AWFUL! I call it 'the slaughterhouse'. It kills me slowly but painfully. I go to a non-private school and honestly I think private school would be not much better [my parents can't afford it anyway].
-It is an exam factory and we are like government robots that are programmed and hypnotised by them.
-The people! How horrible can people be!
-Not being seen as an individual and just as a grade. The school aren't even doing what they were supposed to do to accomodate me when I moved there last year.
-Lack of organisation and communication.
-Pressure and not putting the needs and wellbeing of the pupil first. [I think the pressure would be elevated in private schools where [my friend] gets an enormous amount of homework every night. What about clubs and music practice? It is not like I am sitting around watching TV and playing on video games. I need the time after school just to recover from school]
-Teachers being more worried that eg. your earring is bigger than blahdy blah than the kids smoking and taking drugs behind the sixth form building.
And so on and so on...so I plan to homeschool my children at secondary level unless all the primary schools are rubbish near where I live.
Enough ranting from moi.
August 1st, 2013 08:51 PM #87Senior Member
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I'm in the US and I went to Catholic, Private AND Public school in that order. Oh how I wish my parents waited for high school to send me to a good school rather than burned through their funds to send me to great schools K-4! Oh well. It was an adjustment though to say the least! I agree with a pp that keeping it consistent is a good idea. I will probably do public for my daughter if we stay on in this district.