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April 28th, 2013 10:17 PM #26Senior Member
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@violetgray: You're not abnormal. In fact up until I started dating OH I hated kids. Not like "oh they're annoying" but a full blown hatred (looooong back story involved). However OH's youngest sister was born about 3 weeks before we got together so I spend a lot of time babysitting the older ones (10-2) and then taking care of Edie (the baby) to realize kids aren't all bad and now I can't wait for my own. In fact I think I've bugged OH about babies 3 times today. If I could get away with buying baby clothes for my future kids I would. I have a problem.
My mom on the other hand has given me a deadline on when to start having kids and a cut off on when to start. I have to the first one within 5 years (19-24) and have the last one within 8 years (by 27) otherwise I'm too old and she's too old and can't enjoy her grandkids. Little does she know I DO NOT want her around my children at all.If I had a baby right now they'd be:
April 28th, 2013 10:21 PM #28Senior Member
If I had a baby right now they'd be:
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April 28th, 2013 10:21 PM #30Senior Member
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Hey guys, my name is Cate (my real name! ) and I'm entering 9th grade this year!
Over the past year I have just started becoming obsessed with having children. I can't stop thinking about names, even at school, and I'm always imagining being pregnant or raising a child. I don't know if that makes me weird, especially at my age.. but oh well! I love Nameberry, and I try to contribute almost every day!
Also, according to everyone I know, me wanting more than four is irrational and crazy. I just can't stand the thought (being an only child myself) having only two or three!Catelin GenevaJust highschooler by day author by night obsessed with names and future babies when she's much older.
Cecily Eirwen Ophelia, Belphoebe Judith Primrose, Isolde Bellona Winter, Circe Guinevere Florence
Rainier Gideon Wolf, Eddard Severus Wolf, Peregrin Julius Harrow, Dorian Oliver Fox, Casimir Endymion Silver
April 28th, 2013 10:34 PM #32
Justin has been in the Navy for a little over a year now and it does get hard sometimes. But to be honest, I don't find it entirely difficult. I wish it was different, I wish we were together all the time but I love him. If both people want it to work badly enough, it will work.
Some more concrete advice though: start writing in a journal when he's in boot camp. I kept one by my bed and wrote in it before I went to sleep just so I could feel like I was keeping him informed. He'll probably love to look through it (if you let him) when he gets back just to see what you were up to Also, ya gotta learn how to communicate on the phone. It took us the better half of three months to finally have real phone conversations cause our generation just doesn't talk on phones really. That part was probably the hardest but once you get it, it gets much better.
Seriously if you need any help or tips or advice or just wanna vent about how much it sucks you can talk to me anytime!My Favorites:
Colette Kristine. Alice Evanna. Gemma Elizabeth. Mabel Verity. Rosalie Grace.
Jack Jeffrey. Carson Luke. Felix James. Leo Patrick. River Justin.
can't wait to marry my love!
April 28th, 2013 11:57 PM #34
Anyway, don't think you are breaking the rules, and its normal.