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  1. #16
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    Why do you want to change your surname? Why not just the first name?
    Blade, MD

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  2. #18
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    Quote Originally Posted by blade View Post
    Why do you want to change your surname? Why not just the first name?
    My surname isn't my actual surname, they used my grandfather's name by mistake when I got my passport... my current surname is 12 letters long. My father has a different surname to me and his brother and my mother has a different surname.
    What other surnames go well with Alexander?
    Last edited by lieutenant; February 27th, 2013 at 02:24 AM.

  3. #20
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    Quote Originally Posted by tk. View Post
    I'm sorry to hear that you have such a rotten deal with your name. I hear what you're saying about not wanting to bring your current name along at all, but I think Blade has given good advice. What she's saying is that your current name WILL follow you, to some degree, no matter how much you may wish it was otherwise. When you apply for a job, one of the first spaces is dedicated to previous names you have gone by. Your employer will know that you've changed your name. Given that you'll be entering a no-nonsense field, potential employers will prefer a no-nonsense reason for changing your name. Blade's reasons make sense, whereas Badass Vandal would be hard to explain.
    In some places it's actually illegal or highly discouraged for an employer to ask you outright if you've changed your name (the reason being is it would be an easy way to brew a discrimination lawsuit, for example an immigrant who changed his/her name to assimilate or a transgender person). What they CAN ask you legally is if any records they need to verify (e.g. work, school, criminal, etc.) are under another name (what they mean of "being known by another name" is if one or more of those records may appear under another name, not a full list of names you may have used since birth), and can penalize you if withholding the name prevents them from properly performing the background check. If the last sentence weren't true, that would imply that someone adopted or otherwise had their name changed as a child would have to reveal their birth name even if it would be of no use to an employer (on an adoption forum someone once asked this, and in such a case the consensus was that no you don't need to bring up that fact). (On the other hand, if an employer needs to know a nickname, middle name that appeared as your first name, alias you committed a crime under, etc. to check those records you'd have to bring that up, even though it didn't involve a legal name change.) Of course, if you've already earned your degree under your original name that fact probably won't be of a practical difference to you.

    ETA: After reading more of the posts, I'm talking about the actual employment application (as it would apply to jobs in general), not the licenses, etc. (where they will want documentation if not everything matches).

    ETA2: Source for the first paragraph (link broken so as to not flag the post as spam): admin (dot) mtu (dot) edu/hro/forms/whatyoucanandcantasklongversionmay05.pdf

    ETA3: In terms of what's legal/illegal to ask, any questions as to WHY a person changed their name would be verboten (they are allowed to know prior or other names only for record-checking purposes, and asking the prospective employee any details of the name change would also be a red flag in a discrimination lawsuit).
    Last edited by namefan; February 27th, 2013 at 11:05 AM.

  4. #22
    Quote Originally Posted by lieutenant View Post
    My surname isn't my actual surname, they used my grandfather's name by mistake when I got my passport... my current surname is 12 letters long. My father has a different surname to me and his brother and my mother has a different surname.
    What other surnames go well with Alexander?
    Have you considered the possibility of taking on a family surname, such as your fathers, or a variation of one? I wouldn't scrap your whole name as you might regret not feeling a sense of connection to your heritage/ ancestry later on in life.

    I think Alexander is a great choice for you, btw.

  5. #24
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    @namefan none of what you said applies to doctors, as I hope I outlined above.

    Lieutenant, gently, I hear a bit of self-hatred in your posts. I don't know where in the world your family originally came from, but I sure there are ways to make your surname work in Australia without blindly picking a random English one. How would your family feel about a son called Alex Johnson?

    I am completely sympathetic to wanting to divest yourself of a 12-letter unpronounceable monstrosity with an equally difficult first name. As someone married into an Arab family-- and I think the Arabs are currently about the most reviled and feared people group on earth-- I am also sympathetic to ugly ethnic prejudice and the desire to 'pass.' but remember that tough high school years won't follow you forever, and at uni-- esp on a medical course-- people will come from all different backgrounds and be interested in world cultures.

    All that to say, change your surname to something congruent with an identity that I promise you will later come to cherish.
    Blade, MD

    XY: AR
    XX: CVN

    Aquila * Chrysanthe * Emmanuelle * Endellion * Ione * Jacinda * Lysandra * Melisande * Myrra * Petra * Rosamond * Seraphine * Silvana * Theophane / Blaise * Cyprian * Darius * Evander * Giles * Laurence * Lionel * Malcolm * Marius * Peregrine * Rainier

    كنوز الصحراء الشرقية Hayat _ Qamar _ Sahar _ Maysan _ Iman / Altair _ Fahd _ Faraj _ Khalil _ Najid _ Rafiq _ Tariq

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