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  1. #1

    I have an "ethnic" surname, so are these ethnic names best avoided?

    What's your view on having an ethnic surname and using a first or middle name from another ethnicity? Too clashy? I like the Welsh names Bethan and Seren and the Irish name Cathleen (this spelling only). But I have an ethnic surname that is neither Welsh nor Irish. Except for Bethan (it's one of the few B names I like), I'd only use them in the middle name position. Thanks!

  2. #3
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    I think especially for a middle its completely fine.

    And for a first, well, I'm going the other way - I married an Irish guy with a rather Irish name, but I have no intention of giving up ALL my family names!

  3. #5
    Depending on the surnames country of origin, it may or may not be too clashy.

    I think Seren is sort of culturally neutral as it isn't so common that it's not associated with one group.

    Some names that are similar:
    Alden
    Auden
    Austen
    Avalon
    Bryony
    Elowen
    Maren
    Vesper

  4. #7
    I think it is perfectly find as long as the names flow together. My Dh is Filipino and i am Irish so why should my kids name not reflect who they are. So i say go for it.

  5. #9
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    I think it depends. I have an ethnic surname as well. It's long, difficult to spell/pronounce and Russian/Eastern European.

    May daughter's name is French but it sounds great in Russian & Polish accents of our family members- if that isn't a concern I think it matters much less.

    I think that Cathleen works with a non Irish surname cause the sound & spelling are familiar in the US. More out-there, less popular picks with obvious Gaelic spellings might trip people up or cause them to assume your kids are half Irish. It just depends if that matters to you.

  6. #11
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    It definitely depends on exactly what ethnicity your surname is.

    Bethan, Seren and Cathleen are quite commonplace in England so I don't really see them as very Celtic anyway. I actually know a little girl named Bethan who's father in Indian and she has a traditional Hindi surname.
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