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Thread: The LAST Name
January 1st, 2013 04:40 PM #36
I took my husbands last name even though he is Mexican and there the wives do NOT take the husbands name.. and for the kids they use double barrel names...
Mom- Maria Gonzalez Martinez Dad- Lucas Alvarro Salvado
kids will be ________ Alvarro Gonzalez ( the Paternal last name from each side)
BUT as confusing as it is to explain in writing in is even harder in person!!! And I didnt want to have to explain why all of us have different last names!
So I took JUST the paternal last name of my husband and my son has it too... so at least there is some cohesion!!!
His last name makes me feel a lot more exotic! hahaha!on the search for the perfect girls name!
January 1st, 2013 06:58 PM #38Senior Member
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I do a good bit of digging into the family ancestry in my genealogy work (which has taken a back seat now with 3 kids) & when I put data into the tree the woman's maiden name is always used. I.E. going years back..I have it written as Mildred Falk & William Troelsen & more often than not, when you look in genealogy records you will always find the maiden name in CAPS. So from a genealogy standpoint, this creating a new surname instead of taking your husbands or keeping your maiden is like commiting genealogy suicide! The surname is a big key in finding the previous generation.
January 1st, 2013 07:15 PM #40
If there can be degrees of feminists, I am probably "more feminist" than most of my friends, and they were surprised that I changed my last name after marriage. But that's the beauty of feminism-- I had choices, and I made the choice that suited me the best. We could have chosen a new name together. He could have taken mine. There is no one way to go and to each their own when it comes to this issue, I think. (But @mrstrivette makes an interesting point!)
January 1st, 2013 07:46 PM #42Senior Member
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My mom did not take my dad's last name because it sounds terrible with her first name and she had no interest in using her middle. My sister and I have her last as a second middle and we appreciate the connection to her side of the family. I will change my last name depending on how well it flows with my name.
January 1st, 2013 08:10 PM #44Member
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