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  1. #21
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    Hi.

    I'm around your age, and reading through your text remind me of how I was feeling a couple years ago: very hopeless, lacking confidence, not doing great in college, lacking direction in my life. I know telling you "you're too young to worry", "your problems are nothing", is probably not very helpful at this point. Your thing is "baby fever", mine was "I'm a loser because I don't have a boyfriend and will die alone". It happens.

    Medication and specialised help - really just someone I would talk to a couple hours a week - helped me a lot. I changed my major to a field I liked and was better at. I still don't have a boyfriend (lol) but I'm much happier and more comfortable with my life. If your previous experiece with a psychiatrist didn't work, please try again. I promise you it will be worth it. Feeling depressed is not inevitable.

    Best of luck
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  2. #23
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    @uniquenamelover, I bet you feel like we're all piling on. You came seeking validation and you might be interpreting all of our chippy success stories as the opposite.

    I just wanted to say I know how you feel. Really, I do. Worries about partnering up and future families are very, very normal, especially as you're in your early 20s.
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  3. #25
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    Quote Originally Posted by uniquenamelover View Post
    This post is full of inaccurate assumptions I don't know where to start.
    Yep, you're right. You asked if anyone felt similarly to how you feel and I expressed my own experience with that. I was talking more in terms of general 'you' and thinking out loud because obviously I am still very affected by my own inability to be a mother at this point in my life.
    I'm truly sorry for offending you, and I wish you the best.
    Last edited by lucialucentum; October 21st, 2012 at 01:21 AM.
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