After all of that!

[tintri]

I feel like Simon and Jesse flow best. I like Simon Sebastian!

[jesse]

I love all of your ideas everybody!!
So here are the middles so far:

I would have never thought of Simon Sebastian. Love it!! OR
Simon Anthony

What do you think of Oscar Antonio Altomari? Came to me at 2:00 in the morning. OR
Oscar Francesco
Oscar Sebastian I think sounds too "s" heavy to me

Milo Sebastian

Gus is out the window since my husband hates it

Now there's Max. My husband thinks Max is too short and doesn't like Maxwell. Maximilian is too long. Also, is Max played? It just seems popular to me, even though I only know one. What do you think?

[teacup42]

I love Oscar Antonio.
I feel like there are so many Max's, that you should either go with Oscar or Simon.

[thuja]

I like Jesse & Milo as a sibset. Milo Sebastian is way cool. I like Oscar, but not with Jesse. Simon would be my 2nd choice after Milo, but agree Simon has a more serious cast. That having been said, Simon Sebastian is also a very solid name. Have you considered Silas? In some ways, Silas goes better with Jesse than Simon does.