I like Isadora Lilia Monet and Isadora Lilia Frances. Another exotic consideration that I'll throw out is Lillemor ("Little Mother") if you're still on the fence about Lilia.
Thanks for the input. I definitely think I prefer Monet in honor of my mom over Frances. Now I just need to decide if it works best with Lilia or Lily. I appreciate the suggestions. Thanks. :)
I think the name order would work better as:
Lily Isadora Monet
Lilia Isadora Monet
You could still call her anything you like.
Lilia/Lily and Monet are such wonderful names (I would just scratch Kay off the list since it can not compare). Frances is a very underused name. I know what you mean about Lilia being so beautiful. Are you sure that name has to be off your first name list?
Yes. Lilia was on our our first name list at one time but really good family friends just named their daugter Lillian and James (dh) will not use it as a first name. Made me so sad because it had been on our list since I was pregnant with our second, over 7 years ago. :(