Imogen is pronounced "im-oh-gin." I have never heard the first syllable said "ee," but I have heard the Imogene spelling pronounced "im-oh-jean" if you prefer that sound.
Congrats on the progress! Eva Jade "Eh-dow-ski" would be so lovely, so I'm glad it's on the list. Hopefully Violet Carolyn, Eleanor, etc. can make the cut, too. :)
I'm really loving Eva Jade Ejdowski! I like Emma or Emerson nn Emmy as well. I'm not loving Cadence with your last name though.
Its so hard to find that sweet spot between trendy and vintage- i do sympathise! Have you guys considered
Maeve (nn Maisie ?)
Jaeda (might be a good way of using Jade but in the first spot- Jaeda Rye perhaps?)
I really like Eleanor Jade -I hope that your DH likes it once you're able to ask him.
How about Cassia? You can have nn Cassie which he might like, and it means cinnamon. Cassia Jade Eh-dow-ski works I think.
Eliana is one of my favourite names. I've stopped suggesting it to people though in case it becomes too popular for me to use :)
Imogen is a really pretty name and has a lovely meaning.
I hope your next conversation with him goes well.