A lot are nice too. Maybe it's just in a learning environment at certain schools like sidura said. It's not always the students though despite the 'all teachers do such a wonderful job' argument. However my father was a teacher and i don't think he was bad. Also us students from private/posh schools can be little horrors sometimes, not that me or my friends from different schools were.
But there are some adults who claim to be so religious but still they don't practice kindness.
I agree with this. I grew up Catholic, never met anyone who was a "witch." I'm Catholic and my husband isn't and he definitely doesn't think I'm one. I agree that some can be a little more "close-minded" but that doesn't = "witch"
Originally Posted by pinkballerina
Generalising catholics as b*tches is the same as saying blondes are stupid and that the British love tea.
I don't doubt that some Catholic's are b*tches but sweeping comments like that really bug me.
I'm in the US and I think that it really depends on location. I went to public school in a suburb of Buffalo, NY and had a great experience. The education I received was wonderful and allowed me to get into a great college. Advanced Placement classes were offered, their music and sports programs were great and I was able to meet a diverse group of people that I still connect with to this day. Yay public school!
However, after moving to a teeny tiny town in rural New Mexico, there is no way I would put my daughter in the public school here. It's not a judgement on the people, but just the opportunities and amenities offered. No music, no sports, no AP classes, etc. The school is even closed every Friday just because of budget issues! They also combine grades due to such low enrollment (ex. grades 6&7 instead of seperately). Boo public school!
Our plan is to move to Colorado before she's in preschool, but if for some reason we did decide to stay here, she would definitely be going to private school. I'm just highlighting the differences between public schools in different locales.
Hope this helps! Good luck :)
I attended a public primary school, and then went to an expensive all-girls high school-I feel like I got the best of both worlds-the sad fact is that while public schools I think give a child a better perspective, private schools simply have more resources.
Originally Posted by goldielocks
I grew up in Sydney, btw.
Best of luck to you
I'm 18. I've spent my entire life in public schools (in the US, in Washington state and Alaska), except for second grade, where I was in a 43-student, 1-12 private Catholic school.
As far as this 'Catholics are b!tches' thing goes, I grew up Catholic as well, and while I'm no longer a 'believer,' I truly love the community and people. More than half of my family is made up of devout, practicing Catholics, and religion DOES NOT dictate personality. I'm sorry that a few Catholic schools and parishes are corrupt and bad in general, but this true for ANY and ALL religions and groups of people. It's in very poor taste to single out Catholicism. A more appropriate statement would have been suggesting to visit schools and do research before making a decision, because you have had bad experiences.
Anyway, I would not recommend private schooling, unless it is a relatively large one (at least 500 students). From my perspective, socialization is just as important as education. I have met too many kids who are homeschooled or went to a small private school who are completely incapable of interacting with their peers. Being well-socialized is extremely important; the focus is always put on academics in the media, with test scores and grades and all that, but if you can't hold a conversation with someone, it does you no good.
If the system is not educating your child as you would like it to, you can always do homeschooling on top of public school. My parents did this with me, and I was doing 4th-grade level math in kindergarten by just working through math books. In second grade, I'd started working on pre-algebra and read through the fourth Harry Potter book (technically a 5th-6th grade book for reading level). Do not underestimate the intelligence of your child, push them to do more and work harder, but DON'T take them away from kids their own age. And a lot of them. I can not push hard enough the importance of socialization in today's society.
I am still in school, and I attend a co-ed public school. I see the ups and downs of private and public schooling. I think I rather public schooling personally, however. Your child will get to spend time making friends and such. I would also think they will get to do group work which is very important if you and your spouse+ child decide they will continue with post secondary education. Every child needs friends and it will be so much easier at a public school. I am not a big fan of homeschooling. I too think if you an get just as good education for free, why pay? I wouldn't even consider sending my children to a same sex school.
I am currently at a single sex private school and I like it. I did go to a public primary school and I was a terrible kid I was always in trouble never did my homework I yelled at the teacher and since I did the same work as the year 4 students. Personally I think it depends for me single sex private really was the only option as I live in the country and there are no good public boarding schools really at the one i perth there are fights as is the one an hour from me. So just look and see what you think is best and just trust that you have made the right decision
I went to a mix of schools. I lived in the uk and went to my local, mixed (in every way) state school until high school when I went to a private, girls school. Before that I was a terrible student, I didn't want to do the work and no-one made me, there were 34 other kids in the class. At private school I was one of 15 and if I didn't do the work I would have to stay in at lunch times and after schools until I did. At private school being the best was what made you cool: being the best tennis player, being the best at maths, being the best at art etc. It was highly competitive but we were like a little family and I am still in touch with most of my classmates. I finished school with great grades despite not being at all academic. Every girl in my year went to university, mostly very very good universities. And when I did go to university the work wasn't any harder than I had been doing at school. I think it was a great preparation for life and if I had gone to my local state school like I begged my parents to let me do, I probably wouldn't have got any qualifications at all.
My partner came from a wealthy family and went to pre-prep school and then boarding school at age 8. I totally couldn't do that to my kids, but she loved it, thought it was the best thing ever and begs me to let our kids experience that. Her parents wanted to her do that for three main reasons: superior education, independence and meeting the "right" people.
If you want your child to be a CEO/lawyer/investment banker etc. sending them to a highly competitive, educationally challenging private school is probably the best way. I hate the idea of "meeting the right people" but ultimately, most of the politicians, people at heads of companies etc. can be traced to a certain bunch of schools and a certain bunch of universities. That is not to say you can't be a lawyer if you go to your local school, but it will be more challenging.