Ideally I want three kids. Two boys and a girl in the middle with the youngest boy being adopted. OH wants four. He's one of seven so to him 3 kids seems like an empty house. But he remembers when there was four of them as the easiest time to get along with everyone. There was a hand for everyone to hold, you were naturally paired off and there's was normally always someone to play with if one was busy. Plus Martin thinks that adopting two siblings would be nice and give them someone who knows what being adopted is like.
I love the idea of writing a journal before falling asleep. I might do that since it will probably be the best thing to actually talking to him.
Martin despises phones. He doesn't have a house phone or a cell phone. He has a texting app on his iPod and then he still hates using it. I could blather on and on for hours on the phone if I like who I'm talking to though. Lol.
I think it's crazy to have anything less than 4 kids! I am the youngest of 4 and my boyfriend is one of 4. It just makes sense to me I guess. Not to mention his step dad is the middle child of 7 and there is nothing more fun than holidays at his grandparents house with all 7 aunts and uncles. So much craziness ensues!! Oh and I need enough children so that I can use all the names I love :) hehe.
EVERYONE will expect you to break up, expect you to cheat on each other, tell you bad stories about sailors or marines, and never will they once appreciate what you sacrifice as a girlfriend. But whatever, prove them all wrong cause the whole long distance thing can definitely be done. And tell your boy he needs to get used to phones pretttttty quick! haha but there's also skype/facetime/instant messaging/facebook whatever works best for you guys