Just suggest they don't use one because you don't like them? "If you MUST use something you like, please use the ones I hate the least." Sound condescending now?
I actually used the term "very boyish", which is a term you used in your original post. I made sure to differentiate "boyish" from "very boyish".
I meant that my style is very...*pause*... boyish/masculine/unisex. Not very boyish. But I do like very boyish and typically masculine names for girls, that's my taste. Just like liking traditional or classic names is a taste.
Rowan to be a genius... but she's only 18 months old, haha. I'm sure she'll love reading, both of us do.