Category: middle names
By Melissa Willets
One of my daughters likes quesadillas, but not grilled cheese. My other daughter feels the opposite: grilled cheese is okay, but she won’t eat quesadillas. I’ve never understood it. Both have cheese inside!
Recently, while preparing two similar, yet different lunches for my kids, I was thinking about my girls’ middle names. That’s when I had an “Aha!” moment. It’s what’s in the middle that matters. Lightbulb! I should stop giving my girls such a hard time about their lunch preferences.
Because really, what sandwiches the cheese, be it bread, or a tortilla, is a matter of taste, and may evolve over time. Hey, just last week my youngest asked for a grilled cheese on a hamburger bun. Go figure.
Savvy parents looking for a name consider how well the first, middle, and last name get along (or how well the names flow).
But before we talk more about name flow, some discussion about where flow stands in the pecking order would be helpful. My motto when it comes to names, clothes, home decor, etc. is:
“Style without function causes unnecessary grief.”
Let’s talk about middle names.
Family names, filler names, fallback names – there are so many approaches to choosing your child’s middle that it can make landing on the perfect first feel almost easy.
Factor in a growing number of children who receive not one, but two middles, and it can become quite the puzzle.
Middles that are meaningful and interesting and maybe downright original have their place, and I’m an unapologetic fan of big, stand-out middles.
This week’s daring middle names in the news are:
Middle names are, in many ways, the place where you can get most adventurous with your choices.
Or are they?
What, in your opinion, is the best kind of middle name to choose?
A creative name that you might love but that you wouldn’t dare put in first place?
A name with important symbolism — the city where your child was conceived, the name of a personal hero?
Or maybe you see the middle name as the ideal place to represent family: to use the baby’s father’s first name, for instance, or pass down grandma’s maiden name or honor a family member who is recently deceased.
Or the middle name to you might be an opportunity to create flow and melody in a name, and so you look for a middle name with the perfect combination of syllables and sounds.