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BOYS’ NAMES: A New Generation

Sunday, May 17th, 2009

While girls’ names are arguably more interesting – there are more of them, with more variations, and they move up and down the popularity ladder more nimbly – boys’ names are where the real baby-naming story lies today.

Parents are virtually reinventing the genre, abandoning traditional masculine names that have ruled for centuries in favor of a new brand of names for boys.  These might be ancient names resurrected from the Bible or mythology, established surnames reconstituted as firsts, ethnic choices newly imported to our shores, or – most frequently – names invented to suit the current style.

All these different types of names yield the same result: They identify a new type of boy.  He’s decidedly masculine, yet not conventionally so.  He’s strong, yet individualistic; he nods to tradition, but doesn’t necessarily follow it.

Our sons, parents seem to be saying via these new boys’ names, are neither sissified nor the same old Dicks and Johns to be shoehorned into some outmoded macho mold.  These names herald a quiet revolution in the way parents view their little boys and, by extension, in the way they’ll raise them.

Are we putting too much stock in the power of names to affect a change in something as fundamental as gender roles?  Actually, we think it’s the other way around: The vision of gender is changing, for boys as well as girls, and the new boys’ names reflect that.

This week, we’ll look at some of the new masculine choices moving up the popularity list.  The first group are the old names made new again.

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Atticus

August

Caleb

Cyrus

Ezra

Felix

Garrett

Gideon

Isaac

Isaiah

Jadon (though it’s used less often in this original form than as the nouveau Jaden, Jayden et al)

Josiah

Levi

Maximus

Moses

Nehemiah

Odin

Orion

Roman

Romeo

Sebastian

Solomon

Titus

Tobias

Tristan

Zachariah

Tomorrow: Surname names, real and synthetic, for the new brand of boy.

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UNISEX NAMES: What’s Hot, What’s Not

Wednesday, May 13th, 2009

charliead1When we wrote our first book, Beyond Jennifer & Jason,  we hit on the idea of grouping unisex names into percentage categories–which were used more for girls and which for boys. These ranged from 90% feminine (Shannon and Tracy) to 75% feminine (Kim and Jan) to 50-50 (Ricky, Nicky) to 75% male (Kirby, Kyle) to 90% masculine (Addison, Glenn).

Most of those names have fallen completely off the radar (though long before Grey’s Anatomy, Addison was the nickname/surname of Bruce Willis’s macho character in Moonlighting), but the release of the new Social Security figures provides a good opportunity to check up on which side of the gender line unisex names are falling right now.

UNISEX NAMES GETTING MORE FIRMLY FEMININE

ADDISON
ALEXIS
ARIEL
BAILEY
EMERSON
HARPER
JORDYN
LONDON
MARLEY
PAYTON
REAGAN
REESE
RILEY (though still strong for boys)
SKYLAR
TAYLOR
TEAGAN

UNISEX NAMES MORE MALE

ANGEL
CAMERON
CHARLIE
DYLAN
HAYDEN (though the gender gap is narrowing)
JADEN, JAIDEN, JAYDEN
JAYLEN
JORDAN
MICAH
PARKER
PHOENIX
SAGE
ZION

UP FOR GIRLS AND DOWN FOR BOYS (in 2008)

ALEXIS
ALI
BAILEY
DEVON
FINLEY
HAYDEN
JUSTICE
KENDALL
LOGAN
QUINN
REAGAN
SAGE
TAYLOR

UP FOR BOYS AND DOWN FOR GIRLS

JAIDYN, JAYDEN
KENNEDY
PEYTON
ROWAN
SKYLER

UNISEX NAMES RISING FOR BOTH BOYS AND GIRLS

AVERY
CHARLIE
EDEN
EMERSON
EMERY
HARLEY
HARPER
JAYLEN
KAYDEN
LONDON
MARLEY
MICAH
PARKER
PAYTON
PHOENIX
RILEY
RORY
RYLEE
ZION

AND THOSE FALLING FOR BOTH SEXES

ANGEL
ARIEL
CAMERON
CASEY
DAKOTA
DYLAN
JADEN, JADYN
JAMIE
JORDAN
REESE
RYAN
SIDNEY
SKYLAR
TYLER

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ADDISON, SON OF ADAM: THE PRINCIPLE OF PATRONYMICS

Wednesday, March 11th, 2009

patronymics-3-gensBack when there was a very limited stockpot of names, and there might be, for example, two Roberts in a village who had to be distinguished from one another, they began to be identified by nicknames and by the names of their fathers: one would be known as Robert Will’s son, the other Robert John’s son, and soon an elaborate system evolved based on the names of grandfathers and great-grandfathers.

Similar patronymic systems, with names meaning “son of,” took root in most cultures. In Danish, the suffix added was sen, in Swedish son, in French de, in Armenian ian, in Basque ez, in Norman fitz, in Scotland Mac or Mc, in Ireland O’, Mac or Mc, and in Wales, simply the letter s–Jones meaning John’s son.

Though all these surname names relate to paternal lineage, in these days of last-name-first and boys-for-girls, there are a lot of patronymics that can work for girls as well: Mackenzie and Madison are good examples that have already been totally accepted. Some of the many other possible “son of” names follow–those that have been used for girls are starred.

*ADDISON
ANDERSON
ANSON
BADEN
BATES
BENSON
BEVAN
BEVIS
BOWEN
*BRYSON
CAVANAUGH
DAVIS
DAWSON
DEJEAN
DIXON
*EDISON
*ELLISON
*EMERSON
FITZGERALD
FITZHUGH
FITZPATRICK
FITZWILLIAM
HARRISON
JACKSON
*JAMESON
JEFFERSON
*JENSEN
*JUDSON
KERMIT
MACAULEY
McCALLISTER
MacDUFF
*McKENNA
*McKENZIE/MACKENZIE
*MAGEE
MORRISON
NILES
O’HARA
O’REILLY
O’SHEA
PARRY
PIERCE
POWELL
QUILLIAM
*QUINNEY
ROYCE
TENNYSON

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TIGER WOODS NAMES BABY CHARLIE, A SIBLING FOR SAM. But Which Is The Boy and Which Is The Girl?

Wednesday, February 11th, 2009

tiger-woods Charlie and Sam are typical of an emerging pattern linking two current trends: nicknames and ambigender names. Sam followed on the avalanche of Samanthas, often called Sam, which resulted in some parents cutting straight to the short form–Denise Richards, for one, used it for her daughter in 2004. And Charlie, Tiger and Elin Woods’ new nickname-name choice, (and it’s really not hard to see why someone who was christened Eldrick and gained fame as Tiger might be partial to nicknames) is another that’s being used increasingly for both sexes. Just recently, Rebecca Romijn and Jerry O’Connell chose it for one of their twin girls (the other being the much less ambi Dolly). Charlie is already in the Top 800 on the girls’ list for 2007, and I’m expecting to see it even higher when the new list comes out in May.

This is actually Phase 3 of tomboyish short-form girls’ names. In the early decades of the 20th century, it wasn’t unusual to find girls named Billie and Bobbie, and then in the 1960s and 70s there were lots of Rickys and Randys. Modern starbabies with such names include Carrie Fisher’s Billie and Melissa Etheridge’s daughter Johnnie. Most of these girls are given distinctively feminine middle names, like Rose, Grace and Tamara Tulip–probably a pretty wise idea.

Here are some other traditionally male nicknames that could conceivably cross over into the unisex zone. Of course some of them have been used for girls before. Think of Kate & Allie, Charlie on Ugly Betty, Spice Girl Mel B, Joey on Dawson’s Creek. (In the show Sisters, all the women had boy-nickname names: Teddy, Frankie, Georgie, Alex, and Charley.) The difference is that in almost all these cases there was a more formal (and feminine) name on the birth certificate, be it Charlotte or Allison or Melissa. The question is, could and would the names on this list ever stand alone as girls’ given names?

ALLIE
ANDY
CAL
CLEM
DESI/DEZI
DEX
EDDIE
FRANKIE
FREDDIE
GABE
GEORGIE
HAL
HANK
IKE
IZZY
JOEY
LOU
MACK
MAX
MEL
MIKE
MOE
NAT
OLLIE
PETE
SID
STEVE
TEDDY
THEO
TOMMY

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GIRLY BABY NAMES

Thursday, January 15th, 2009

babytutuJennifer Garner and Ben Affleck’s choice of the name Seraphina for their second daughter has put the spotlight on ultra-feminine names. Lots of syllables, ending in a vowel: Those are the classic earmarks of the girly baby names.

When I had my first — and as it turned out, my only — daughter, I was afraid of girly-girl names. I wanted my child to be the kind of girl who could compete with boys in the classroom and on the playing field, who was adventurous and spirited, not bound by any outmoded female conventions.

And so I rejected all kinds of girly-girl names that I otherwise liked — Susannah and Flora and Carolina and Daisy — and picked the anything-but-girly name Rory.

But something surprising happened over the years. I came to not only like the girly names, but to love them. To not merely accept them, but embrace them. Maybe what changed was not entirely within me but in society at large: Why couldn’t a girl combine the frankly feminine with the formerly masculine and end up with an identity and an image that transcended any old gender stereotypes?

In fact, I began to think it was almost revolutionary to choose a girly-girl name but raise your daughter to be whoever she wants: To wear tutus and play lacrosse, to be great in math and grow her hair to her waist. To defy the stereotypes that led to one study showing that girls who’d been given girly baby names did worse at math and science, mainly because teachers expected them to do worse.

I also came to see that the trappings of conventional little girlhood that made me so nervous — the pink and purple ruffle-y dresses, the glittery shoes and the Cinderella DVDs and the passion for Barbie — came and went as quickly as any other stage of early childhood. Whereas a gorgeous feminine name was an attribute that would last forever.

Several girly baby names have been moving up the popularity list, with Olivia, Sophia, and Isabella heading for the top of the charts. Plus, more of my ultra-feminine favorites:

ANNABELLA
AURORA
CATALINA
CELESTIA
CLEMENTINA
CRESSIDA
DELILAH
ESTELLA
EVANGELINA
GEORGIANA
JOSETTE
JULIETTA
LEONORA
LILIANA
LUCIANA
NATALYA
RAFFAELA
ROXANA
SABRINA
SERENA
TABITHA

And by the way, a big shout-out to Beth Delany of Inverness, Illinois, the winner of the nameberry Jennifer Garner baby name contest! Though no one guessed Seraphina Rose, 16-year-old Beth, a name lover who already has all her children’s names picked out, guessed Susanna Rose. Although Carlie guessed the middle names Rose and Elizabeth first, our email to her bounced back — so if you’re out there, Carlie, let us know and we’ll send you a book too! Beth’s prize is an advanced signed copy of our upcoming book, Cool Irish Names for Babies, due out in March.

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