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THE MILLION-BABY NAME

meyerlemonsThe Number One girls’ name of the decade so far is Emily, with about 190,000 babies receiving that name since 2000.  And the top boys’ name is Jacob, given to nearly 229,000 boys this decade.

But there are other names that are given to more than twice as many babies as those Number One names.  Not many parents realize that the names they’re choosing carry this huge degree of popularity.  No states or government agencies track these names or alert people to what vast numbers of children receive them.

Why not?  Because they’re not a single name but a meganame, or a cluster of names, if you like.  These are names that are closely related in form and spelling, with lots of overlaps that sound exactly alike.  There are many examples in modern U.S. baby names – including to some extent Jacob and Emily themselves – but let’s focus on three of the most notorious.

For boys, the premier meganame might be thought of as the Aden cluster.  It includes the following names, arranged so that the relationships are most obvious:

ADEN
AIDEN
AIDAN
AYDEN
BRAYDEN
BRADEN
BRADY
CADE
CADEN
CAIDEN
CAYDEN
KADEN
KAIDEN
KAYDEN
HAYDEN
JAYDEN
JADEN
JAIDEN
JAYLEN
JALEN

There are undoubtedly more variations and spellings that might be included here – we didn’t diverge to Adrian or Zayden, for example – but taken together these names were given to about 480,000 baby boys in the 2000s, more than twice as many as received the name Jacob.

Of course, Brady and Jaylen feel fairly different – but Aden, Braden, and Jaden don’t, and Caden, Kaden and bros sound exactly alike.  Unsuspecting parents, especially those who haven’t been around kids much since they moved up to middle school themselves, might hear a name like Hayden or Aiden and think, wow, that’s really unique.  I want a special, modern, stand-out name for my son, not something everybody uses, like Jacob or Michael or Matthew.

And then they end up with a name that’s twice as common as any of those popular individual names.

For girls, let’s look at the meganame we might call Aylee (or Ayla or Kyla).  It’s far-ranging, and while you might not agree that every name below should be included in the cluster, there are many we left out.  This name cluster embraces:

BAILEY
BAYLEE
HAYLEE
HALEY
HAILEY
CALLIE
KAILEY
KAYLEE
KAYLEIGH
KAELYN
KAYLA
JAYLA
SHAYLA
MAKAYLA
MIKAYLA
KYLA
SKYLA
SKYLAR
SKYLER
KYLIE
KYLEE
RYLEE
RYLEIGH

Nearly 540,000 girls received these names this decade, compared with fewer than 200,000 who were named Emily.  And again, there are many more variations that might be lumped in with this group.

Another megapopular name that crosses gender lines is the Alex cluster, which accounts for nearly half a million baby boys and girls born this decade.  The names we’ve tallied in this cluster are:

ALEXANDRA
ALEXANDER
ALEX (boys)
ALEXA
ALEXIA
ALEXIS (both genders)
ALEXUS (girls)
LEXI
LEXIE
ALESSANDRA
ALEJANDRA
ALEXANDRIA
ALEJANDRO
ALEXANDRO
ALEXZANDER

The lesson: Alex might be a solid, attractive name that works equally well for boys and girls.  What it’s not is distinctive.

If you end up deciding you love Hayden or Hayley or Alexa anyway, go right ahead and choose them.   Just be aware that any name that’s got lots of close relatives is bound to feel far trendier than you’d guess by gauging the popularity of that name alone.

Thanks to our wonderful intern Danielle Miksza for her help with the research and math for this post.

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6 Responses to “THE MILLION-BABY NAME”
Kayt Says:

April 7th, 2009 at 2:49 pm

I would personally include Zaydon and Raiden in the boy cluster, actually. Traditionally, Raiden doesn’t rhyme with the cluster names, but I have a feeling, since it’s appeared in the top thousand for the first time ever last year, it’s been used as a ‘unique’ variant of Aiden and friends. I’ve been preaching the dangers of the Aiden names for years. Thanks for covering this!

Jenmb Says:

April 7th, 2009 at 6:33 pm

I found this out when we were considering Alexa and Gabriella for girls names. Neither of them are ranked exceptionally high, but when you include the variations/alternate spellings, their just too popular for our tastes.

Emmy Jo Says:

April 7th, 2009 at 10:05 pm

Meganames are tough for teachers. This year, I have a Chloe, Callie, Kayla, Kylie, and Riley. Yep, I get them confused all the time. The teacher next door tends to get the “Aden” cluster — last year it was Jayden and Trayden; this year she has Aiden and Hayden.

Jill Says:

April 8th, 2009 at 2:13 am

For the life of me, I can’t figure out why trendy/misspelled meganames appeal to anyone. The yooneek spellings are seriously downwardly mobile, and sadly destroy the original, authentic name.

Michaela, for example, was once a lovely name, but for some reason, people thought it wasn’t special enough, and tried to make it more yooneek by butchering the spelling. Do they not understand that intentionally misspelling a name is not unique, and only makes the result look like a giant typo?

The poor children will have to correct people’s spelling for the rest of their lives! The whole misspelling trend seriously baffles me. :-(

momto2 Says:

June 29th, 2009 at 3:09 pm

I spelled my daughter RYLEE because my best friends name was Lee I didnt do it to be “yooneek” or different I did it because it had significance and meaning to me and my husband. I didnt do it to be trendy in anyway. Where we live I have yet to meet another Riley, Rylee Ryley, Kylie so this doesnt effect me.

proudmom2b Says:

August 3rd, 2009 at 3:26 pm

I never understood the crazy spellings either (I am not including Rylee in this statement, I think that is a very pretty variation) What I don’t like is when people take a name that could be spelled in 5 letters and spell it in 7 or more. And I agree with you Jill, those children will have to correct people on the spelling the rest of their lives.

Another thing that bothers me a little though (I have noticed it as a reoccurring theme on this site especially) is why people say they “hate” a name just because its popular. I named my son (who is now 1) Braden because I fell in love with that name about 10 years ago. Did I know it was super popular now? Not at the time. Would I have picked another name for him if I had known it was lumped in with the “over-used” names. Probably not. I love his name. I didn’t pick it to be “trendy” I picked it because I love it. People act like its ridiculous to pick one of the “aden” names because of how popular they are and really I think that attitude is ridiculous. No offense to anyone. I think people need to stop worrying about what other people think and just pick the name they want for their own children. Whether its one of the most popular or something no one has ever heard of.

Just my two cents, I guess.

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